I want to help you drop that burden off your shoulders! Indeed, I do think that fathers carry the weight of the role they believe they should play within their family. I’m not blaming mothers here but I know that, sometimes, it can be convenient to put most of the disciplinary and authoritarian side of parenting on the dad’s shoulders. If you are a desperate dad, I suppose you do not know well what is your role and you probably feel that you failed at being a good dad or a “complete” one.

What is necessary is to truly comprehend what you can do to be a happy dad which means being able to show your love for your child and also making him understand the principles and respect them. It’s not that complicated.

Below are the 4 tips I can give you:

1. Be vulnerable. Speak about your emotions (but no need to tell you’re a desperate dad!), talk about your experiences when you were a child. Don’t attempt to be a hero. Becoming close to your kid is way more important than being a distant parent.

2. Explain the punishments you give. Say that you wish the best for your child and that is the reason why you need him to comprehend what is wrong and what is good, that you do love him, no matter what. You don’t want your little one to be afraid of you.

3. Mention the consequences of a bad and a good behavior. Your little one will continuously test you if he does not fully understand the limits, if he often sees you giving in. Be determined and very clear about the bad things a bad behavior brings and the positive things a good behaviour produces in your kid’s life.

4. Do one-on-one activities to create that special link. Be tolerant and be sure you express your love and confidence to your little one to improve his self-esteem. That is your role as a parent.

As a desperate dad, probably the problem with your child actually is more challenging than I think but using these guidelines can sincerely help you. Otherwise, you can as well use a parenting guide if your kid has developed unhealthy routines and is actually imposing his own rules in your house. It can assist you if you find it very difficult to be constant and coherent in your own behaviour with your kid.

I do hope you’ll start hoping again and I am sure you’ll see good results soon if you get help solving the problems. Being a desperate dad isn’t a fatality. You will be a happy one I’m sure! But you have to make a change occur mainly because it is something you cannot expect from your kid. It’s never too late. Everyone can transform a difficult situation with proper tools and support !

If you’re interested, there’s a website created by parents for parents where you’ll find a selection of valuable parenting methods and reviews of each of them. The website is www.YourParentingHelp.com.
Good luck !

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